As my children reach the age of more and more privileges, the calendar is marked, not by days and months, but by the next privilege to be taken away. “If you don’t act right, you won’t (insert next thing the child most looks forward to)”
– James R. Rogers IV
November 1, 2007
“Ruining Future Generations Since 1996”
It’s parenting by incentive and disincentive. A friend of mine has an Iphone, and my boys are drooling all over it. I told them, in all sincerity, that if they could behave in a manner I expect, and completed their chores, I’d buy them Iphones. I meant it. They got excited, until they were made to realize that a promise was not sufficient, and it was going to be based on performance. They were told that if they would meet the standards being set, two iphones would be delivered on October 28, 2008 and as further incentive, an Xbox 360 would be delivered before Christmas.
They made it a day and a half.